The Real Power of You

By Sharae Walker on Monday, September 27, 2010
Filled Under: Education

We all have a power within us that will lead our life in the direction that we so choose, however sometimes our inner power has been suppressed due to life situations, other times is may be because we never knew it existed. At anytime we have the ability to unleash our inner power, and develop it, permitting it to be our life’s guide.

Each of us possess an inner powerful force, learning how to ignite it, is our goal.

First, believe in yourself. We must believe that we are far more capable of accomplishing a challenge than we give credit for. It is too often that we prepare ourselves mentally to fail by coaxing our mind with excuses; “I can’t do this because of him or her”, “I can’t do this because of this or that”. Our mind is a reflex organ, simply put; it automatically and involuntarily fills our head with millions of thoughts during the day. Therefore, if we consistently inundate are thoughts with excuses such as “I can’t”, chances are we won’t, however if we consistently fill our thoughts with “I can”, chances are we will.  With us having the ability to control our thoughts, we have the ability to fill our mind with powerful messages, igniting the power within. We must remember that everything we think creates the life that we intend for ourselves.

Second, never be afraid to push yourself to the limits.  Some of the most successful individuals would not have attained their level of success if they did not push themselves.  In fact, when first presented with a task, many of those successful individuals may not have known how they would accomplish it, but they possessed willingness and the drive to do whatever it took to succeed.  We too have the ability and strength to achieve, to go after what we want, but we have to choose to do so. We must push ourselves to challenge obstacles, to learn, and furthermore to grow.

Our power within is our heart, courage, and our willingness to succeed. This power is our life’s  guide. It’s our inner muscles that we must constantly shape and form. . We must build our inner muscles as we would build our outer muscles, with routine and dedication.  We must condition our minds to act on strengthening this ability, so that we may react to opportunities that will present themselves.

 

The Importance of Friendship

By Sharae Walker on Tuesday, August 31, 2010
Filled Under: Education
Many individuals may not put friendship on their list of top personal priorities. However friends are vital to our well-being. “In poverty and other misfortunes of life, true friends are a sure refuge. They keep the young out of mischief; they comfort and aid the old in their weakness, and they incite those in the prime of life to noble deeds.” – Aristole
 
With friends we realize that we are never alone. With friends we have a listening ear to vent to, a shoulder to cry on, and a friend to laugh with in our happiest moments.
 
On the other hand, this is not to say that every person we meet will be a life long friend. It takes a true friend to be our support system, and likewise for ourselves in providing the support to our friends need. In fact, true friends are very hard to come by. There are times in which we will meet individuals and consider them our true friends, only to learn otherwise at a later point in the relationship. For this reason, it is important to choose friends wisely.
 
1) Look for individuals that share the same value as you. Honesty, respect and integrity are great qualities to have in yourself, as well as a friend.
 
2) Have friends that will allow you to be your own individualistic self. Should a friend coarse you into being something you are not, then perhaps that friendship should be evaluated. A friend should allow you to be the same person throughout your relationship, as you were when you first met.
 
3) Understand that friends are not disposable. A true friend shouldn’t be flushed down the toilet the moment you have a disagreement. Such as life, it’s very rare that friendships will be smooth sailing. There will be moments in which you may not see eye to eye, however you should be able to discuss certain issues with your friends, and know that they will still be around tomorrow, furthermore a simply argument may stimulate your mind to see another point of view.

 
4) Friendships are two way streets. Like any other relationship, friendships must be nurtured. Both individuals must put time and effort into the relationship, and with communication, love, and support, that friendship will grow into a lasting long term bond.
 
 
It is essential for each of us to have friends, even if it’s only two…the friend that we have in ourselves and the friend that we have in another is just enough to help us live happier, and healthier on the journey through life.
 
 
 
 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 

 

Challenging Challenges

By Sharae Walker on Wednesday, July 7, 2010
Filled Under: Education
No matter what challenge we face, it’s our ability to adapt to get us through it.

Life has a way of throwing us curve balls. We have the ability to shift whether it’s one step or two in order to hit that home run. Challenges help us grow. Without challenges we never push ourselves to that next level. Sometimes the greatest challenges are the biggest rewards.

 

Great success begins with small steps

By Sharae Walker on Wednesday, June 30, 2010
Filled Under: Education

We live in an environment where we expect instant success, a microwavable life, in which we position our thoughts, dreams, and expectation onto a dish, close the door and within four minutes, it’s prepared, cooked and ready for our enjoyment. However , there is some bad news, this life doesn’t exist. It’s a figment of our imagination that stems from watching and observing successful individuals at the prime time of their lives. Interview any successful figure, and they will tell you that it did not happen over night, it was a constant grind, but with small steps, and passion, they fought it out. It takes many years to become the person we are destined to become, but it starts with small steps.

 

1) Be tenacious. Without tenacity the dream we have today will be gone tomorrow. We must be willing to plow through the difficult times, sticking firmly to our passion.

2) Have obedience. Respect yourself and others around you. Never do something out of desperation, and always maintain a positive image. After all, our repetition proceeds us.

3) Never stop dreaming. All we have is our dreams. Dream big, dream long, but most importantly never stop.

4) Just do it – The 1988 NIKE Big Idea Campaign “Just do it”, can be correctly applied to our desires and wants. Picture yourself in the place you want to be and just do it. Study, work hard, learn the in ends and outs of the business and just do it. Whenever someone or something throws you off your path, go around it, under it, or over it, and just do it.

The road may not be an easy one, but by taking small steps and following your passion the destination will be great!